Rut Nieves graduated from the Higher Technical School of Architecture of Madrid. She worked as an architect for more than twelve years in Spain., but with 35 years his life changed. And a lot. left everything: your work, your apartment, your city, her country and the people she loved most... to go in search of herself. After two years in Germany looking for answers, he decided to enter the world of emotional architecture.. He is currently a lecturer, coach, trainer and emotional architect . He grants me an interview after being published the love of your life (Planet), the third installment after two successful previous books. GINÉS J. VERA.
“We are all responsible, But none of us are guilty.", we read in the love of your life do you tell us?
The experiences we live are conditioned by the information we have in the subconscious., Our way of relating is conditioned by the information we have in the subconscious and no one is guilty of what they are not conscious of.. We are programmed, so to speak, to relate in a certain way; When we reach adulthood we have preconceived ideas of what love is., what the couple is, of what man is, what a woman is..., and we inherit and absorb those ideas during childhood.. So, In fact, we are not aware during childhood of all the information we are absorbing in order to later relate to each other in the future.. The things that happen to us have a lot to do with the programming we have in our subconscious.. If you subconsciously think that men are unfaithful or women are unfaithful, that couple relationships are complicated, how are you, what..., That's what you're going to experience in your adult life., because you are programmed to live a series of experiences.
Does it refer to limiting beliefs??
And, and we are not guilty of anything because it really directs us to information that we are not aware of.. We are responsible because it originates in our way of thinking., The experiences we live are related to the information we carry in the subconscious, but we are not guilty because how can we be guilty of something we are not aware of??…
A bit related to the topic of guilt, I have highlighted this phrase so that you can comment on it. “We judge people based on how we judge ourselves.”, “What we do not tolerate in others is that we do not tolerate in ourselves.”.
If you are experiencing something it is because you have to learn something. And, For example, You dislike someone because they are late, The first question would be why do I feel bad that I am late?? How do you feel? Do you feel like they don't respect you?, that they don't value you...? What is the root feeling or root belief that touches you??
We also read something that scientists have already proven, that men and women are different, our brain is different and we express love differently. Why then are we experiencing a wave of feminism that advocates egalitarianism?, for being equal in everything?
I believe that feminism comes from people who feel very hurt., they are very hurt. If someone asks for equality it is because they feel inferior, experience a feeling of inferiority. And the error is in all this cultural information that we have received that can make some women believe that, and it has happened to me too, feel inferior to man. By? Because of this inherited cultural information. From my experience, when I have understood that we are exactly the same men and women, equally valuable, just as capable of loving, just as vulnerable, just as human, just as divine, when you recognize equality on a spiritual level, on an emotional level or on a mental level, you are at peace. So, I talk in my book that the only area in which we are different is biologically., and because we are different we continue to exist. If we were all men or all women we would have become extinct by now. I believe that what feminism needs is to heal emotional wounds and become aware that women are just as valuable as men.. When a woman sees a man as equals, the war ends, the fight is over. I believe that there is a very great need for understanding and love.. But starting with yourself, because if you are asking for equality outside it is because inside you you do not feel equally valuable, you are asking someone external to solve the problem for you, when the only person who should feel equally valuable is you.
